Madam Mayhem is my alter ego as a cougar on the prowl. Through my journey of dating younger people over the last four years I’ve become passionate about sex, kink and pleasure positivity and want to normalise being more open about our desires.
I’m here to share my thoughts and advice on dating, kink and sex…in particular in the realm of the cougar/cub dynamic. I’m also trying to help all the cubs out there get the most they can from online dating and give them the best chance of success with a cougar of their own!
Cub Feedback…
“I admire what you’re doing with your page. By you opening up, it normalises the taboos and I find it inspiring”
Anonymous (Instagram)
“You’ve posted about power dynamics and pleasure in the bedroom and that’s certainly helped me. I have been praised by recent partners who were impressed someone younger knew so much!”
anonymous (onlyfans)
“I like how you’re using your platform to send positive messages, instead of just posting pics.”
Anonymous (Instagram)
Madam Mayhem 