Madam Mayhem is my alter ego as a cougar on the prowl. Through my journey of dating younger men over the last year I’ve become passionate about sex, kink and pleasure positivity and want to normalise being more open about our desires.

I’m here to share my thoughts and advice on dating, kink and sex…in particular in the realm of the cougar/cub dynamic. I’m also trying to help all the cubs out there get the most they can from online dating and give them the best chance of success with a cougar of their own!