About
I’m here for your pleasure and gentle femdom is my brand of domination. I’m a pansexual switch so I bring the understanding of being a submissive to my Domme approach and I’m queer friendly…everyone is welcome. I am particular about the submissives I work with and only offer services that align with my personal kinks.
I’m a 42 year old cis woman, 5’5 tall with fair skin and strawberry blonde hair. I’m a Muscle Mummy with quads built to suffocate and apparently I resemble Mistress T? Go take a look at my TikTok or YouTube accounts if you want to see more.
My superpower is helping people uncover kinks they never knew they had so I encourage baby kinksters to apply. I also enjoy working with couples in a coaching capacity to help establish their own D/s dynamic. I love introducing people to new naughtiness (it’s called a corruption kink, look it up!) and I’ve been called the ‘Matriarch of Cougars’…I bring a nurturing Mummy Domme vibe to dynamics…particularly with younger subs.
Unlocking your deepest pleasure is my goal as your Domme. Please read this page thoroughly then apply via the link at the end of this page.
Services Offered
- Bondage (light restriction only)
- Chastity caging/training
- CEI (cum eating instruction)
- CFNM (clothed female, nude male)
- Dirty talk/voice kink
- Disinterest kink
- Edging/delayed gratification
- Exhibitionism (photo and video making)
- Experimentalism
- Feminisation (own clothing/lingerie to be provided)
- Financial tributes/domination
- Foot/nylon/boot fetish/worship
- Gentle femdom
- JOI (jerk off instruction)
- Key holding service
- Light humiliation/teasing
- Lingerie/latex/leather fetish
- Orgasm control/denial
- Pegging/strap on play
- Praise kink
- Prostate/anal play
- Servant training
- Sensory play/deprivation
- Sensual massage
- Sex toys
- Spanking (light)
- Submissive training
- Wax play
Soft/Negotiable Limits
- ANR (adult nursing relationship)
- Brats (I prefer well behaved subs but brattiness can be accommodated after I know you better)
- Event/club attendance
- Girlfriend Experience (dates, shopping trips etc)
- Home servant
- Impact play (light)
- MD/lb (Mummy Domme/little boy/girl/one)
- Role play scenarios
- Watersports
Hard/Non-Negotiable Limits
- ABDL (adult baby diaper lover)
- Age play
- Breath play (choking, gags etc)
- CBT
- Edge play
- Electro play
- Fetishisation (based on race etc)
- Fisting
- Heavy degrading/humiliation
- Illegal activities
- Intimate contact/body worship (feet permitted)
- No safe word (I will always have a safe word/signal)
- Nudity (mine)
- Oral (giving and/or receiving)
- Pain play
- Penetrative sex (with me)
- Pet play
- Scat
- Smoking/drugs/alcohol
- Smothering
- Sounding
- Tickling
- Vomit
- Wrestling
Rates
- £220 | 1 hour (I recommend 2 hours minimum)
- £400 | 2 hours*
- £600 | 3 hours
- £800 | 4 hours
- £1,500 | Day (8 hours including breaks as required)
Next session day is Saturday 25th May 2024. Time slots are available between 10:30am and 8:30pm.
Specific dates can be accommodated (preferably Fridays or Saturdays) so feel free to apply to reserve a session on a day that works for you.
*If you already subscribe to my OnlyFans, you will receive a 5% discount on your first session of 2 hours or more.
Application Process
If you would like a session with Madam Mayhem, the process is:
- Apply for a session using the application form at the end of this page.
- I will assess your application and let you know via email within 24 hours if you have been successful (check your junk folder to make sure you don’t miss my reply).
- We will agree a session day and time. I will do my best to accommodate your first choice but bear in mind I have other commitments so negotiation may be required to find a day that works for both of us.
- A 50% deposit is payable at the time of application acceptance*
- You’ll then be sent information to prepare for your session (dungeon location, what to bring, rules etc).
*Deposits are non-refundable. Should you need to rearrange your session, this may be done with 72 hours’ notice. If you cancel your session with less than 48 hours’ notice, the full balance of your session will be due. Deposits must be used within 2 months. The remaining 50% payment is to be paid upfront on arrival the day of your session (via bank transfer or PayPal, I do not accept cash).
FAQ
How do I chat to you and find out more about your Domme style?
Sign up to my OnlyFans to see content based on my kinks. It’s also the only place I will reply to messages (daily). Do not send multiple emails asking for information after you’ve applied. Respect my time and pay the very small sign up fee to talk more.
Why does it cost so much?
Pro Domme sessions cost what they do for a number of reasons:
- Dungeon space rental
- The outfits and toys you’ll enjoy
- My time…the hours of research, training, practice and experience I bring to our sessions
If you don’t appreciate these factors and attempt to ask for a discount, you will earn yourself a lifetime block from my services.
Why should I pay for a Pro Domme?
Dominant women are in very short supply so you could try and find one in the kink community but it could take years. Online dating sites are also rife with fake dominants and scammers. A Pro Domme gives you a professional, non-judgemental service and the peace of mind to explore your kinks in a safe way.
What will a typical first session look like?
First and foremost, my priority is to help you feel safe and calm…you’ll likely be excited and nervous and it’s my job to help you navigate that. When you first arrive we’ll discuss your level of kink experience, likes/dislikes and what you are curious about…I want to know all your filthy secrets.
Then I’ll go over safety, aftercare, your limits and my rules and negotiate what we’ll explore during the session. We’ll start the session formally when we feel comfortable and the fun will begin! I’ll let you know as we near the end of the session and allow time for clean up, showering and aftercare…which will be tailored to meet your needs.
Where is the dungeon you work from?
I’m currently operating from a dungeon in East London, a short walk from the Limehouse DLR Station.
What age people do you work with?
You must be at least 21 to apply for a session with me and there’s no maximum age I’ll work with.
Does it cost more for a couple’s session?
Absolutely not. As I’m less hands on and more there in a guiding capacity, the cost is the same. Only one partner needs to subscribe to my OnlyFans to fill in the application for a session.
Why you and not another Domme?
The choice is of course yours, but you should choose me if you:
- Want to explore gentle femdom
- Are new to kink and want to learn what your kinks are
- Are a couple struggling to establish a D/s relationship
- Want a kink education alongside the exploration of your submission
If you’re a switch, can I dominate you?
No, is the short answer. I’m a switch but dominant 98% of the time. I have no desire to be a pro submissive and I do not offer clients the opportunity to dominate me at all.
Do you do outcalls or visit dungeons in other cities?
Currently no, but this is something I may offer in future.
Do you cater to people with disabilities?
I absolutely welcome people with disabilities and those who are neurodiverse. Whether you have erectile dysfunction, desensitisation from SSRIs or sensory issues associated with ASD (and anything in between), it would be my pleasure (and yours) to help you explore. I don’t consider myself a specialist in this area but I’m incredibly patient, nurturing and do my best to give you the safe space for discovery.
The current dungeon I work from isn’t wheelchair accessible, however arrangements can be made for sessions at another central London dungeon if you are a wheelchair user so please apply!
Madam Mayhem 