Let’s get one thing clear…virginity is a social construct. You aren’t suddenly a different person once you’ve had sex for the first time and what constitutes ‘sex’ looks different for everyone, so how can it be measured? The idea of virginity is completely fictional and shouldn’t play any part in dictating someone’s sexual identity orContinue reading “Virginity”
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Vulva Owner’s Pleasure
Vulva owners are conditioned from a very young age to be people pleasers and put everyone else’s needs first. One area this can show up is during partnered sex…especially with society’s focus on penis pleasure and penis-in-vagina (PIV) sex. The orgasm gap is very real and is most prominent in heterosexual sex than any otherContinue reading “Vulva Owner’s Pleasure”
Does Size Matter?
Now that I have your attention…I think the real question is, how can we create the most pleasurable experience with our sexual partners? The focus is better spent on our attitude and actions in bed, not the tools we bring to the job. Why is this the case? Let me break it down for you:Continue reading “Does Size Matter?”
Madam Mayhem 