I have recently ventured into the world of being a Pro Domme…yes, I’m living proof that kink is a VERY slippery slope. There are a plethora of harsh Mistresses out there, but very few Pro Dommes at the sensual, gentle femdom end of the spectrum…where I sit as a pleasure Domme. I decided I can help people explore their sexuality and kinks in a way that others aren’t.
Dominants (Dommes specifically) are in very short supply so you could try to find one in the kink community but it might take years…or never happen. Online dating sites are also rife with fake dominants and people looking to scam you. A Pro Domme gives you a professional, non-judgemental service and the peace of mind to discover and explore your kinks in a safe way.
When seeking out a Pro Domme, consider:
- Does their offering align with your kinks/exploration desires?
- Do they talk about your safety, limits and aftercare?
- Can you develop a trusting dynamic with them?
People wonder why it costs so much to have a session with a Pro Domme. Dommes have to rent dungeon space, then there’s outfits and equipment. The main thing you pay for is their time. You’re paying for the hours of research, training, practise and experience they bring to your sessions. If you don’t appreciate that as a submissive, you aren’t ready to seek out a Pro Domme.
When contacting a Pro Domme, make sure you:
- Are polite and respectful of their time
- Have read and follow their rules and instructions
- Don’t ask for a discount or a service on their hard limit list
When going to your first session:
- Be punctual
- Arrive fresh and showered
- Don’t turn up intoxicated
- Respect your Domme’s rules
Whether you’re looking to finally indulge your foot fetish, experience what a strap on feels like or explore sensory deprivation, there’s a Domme out there who can help you. Do your research and spend the time finding one that’s right for you. They should be invested in your pleasure, want to develop a dynamic and help you on your kink journey.
Madam Mayhem 
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