Firstly, let’s get a few things straight. Sex doesn’t have to be kinky to be amazing. It doesn’t have to be rough to be kinky. Lastly, not everyone enjoys rough sex. We are all individuals, never assume anyone’s desires without first having the conversation…it’s that simple. There seems to be a misconception that we mustContinue reading “Rough Sex”
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Porn Isn’t Sex Education
If you’re reading this it’s likely you lacked a comprehensive sex education growing up. I got the standard ‘don’t have sex until you’re married/this is how a baby is made’ talk with absolutely no focus on pleasure, communication or learning how to enjoy sex. Without a proper roadmap to navigate your own sexuality, sex edContinue reading “Porn Isn’t Sex Education”
The Cougar/Cub Dynamic
While it’s often seen by society as taboo, the cougar/cub sexual dynamic can be a really healthy one. I’ve always preferred younger men…with 40 just around the corner and my prime cougar years ahead of me, I’m a huge advocate for this kind of relationship (in case it wasn’t incredibly obvious already). I’m frequently askedContinue reading “The Cougar/Cub Dynamic”
Lingerie Lovers
It’s no secret I adore lingerie…to the point where I maaaaay be in fetish territory. I don’t wear it to look sexy for a partner, I wear it for my own pleasure. Putting on lingerie is part of foreplay for me…it helps get me in the mood for what’s to come…whether it be fun withContinue reading “Lingerie Lovers”
One Domme Doesn’t Fit All
I’m a switch and enjoy being dominant and submissive equally, but as a cougar I’m naturally more of a domme. Cubs feel comfortable handing control over to me and quite often approach me wanting their first submissive experience. Unfortunately, mainstream porn would have us believe that all dommes are sadistic, whip wielding dominatrix types…so notContinue reading “One Domme Doesn’t Fit All”
Toys Are For Adults Too
Considering I had to by extra storage furniture to accommodate my growing collection, I think it’s safe to say I’m a huge fan of sex toys. A year ago I only had one toy…now I have in excess of 30 in varying shapes, sizes and uses. I’m obviously a big advocate for the use ofContinue reading “Toys Are For Adults Too”
Vanilla is Valid Too
Vanilla is the term society gives to conventional, non-BSDM, non-kinky sex. With the rise in easily accessible, free porn on the internet, people have more exposure to all kinds of kinks and fetishes…especially at a young age. So much so that ‘vanilla’ sex is now looked on as boring and negative. I only started delvingContinue reading “Vanilla is Valid Too”
Madam Mayhem 