Mayhem’s Kinks Part I

If you’ve been following me for a while you might know some of my kinks (I’m not quiet about them), but I thought I’d share the current list (refer to number four…I just can’t help myself).

• Experimentalism •

I feel like a mad scientist sometimes…concocting ideas for playtime and constantly craving the thrill of something new (we all start our kink journey somewhere!). This extends to partners too…I derive so much pleasure from introducing others to things…hearing ‘I’ve never tried that before’ really excites my kinky brain.

• Praise Kink •

I’m not a huge fan of compliments, but I have a praise kink. I know, it’s complicated. Put ‘good’ or ‘little’ in front of any sentence and I’ll eat it up like a good little slut.

• Voice Kink •

Certain voices and accents really get me going…especially when things like ‘cum for me’ are said in the heat of the moment. I cannot tell you how sexy it is even just to hear someone say my name…it feels so intimate to me.

• Exhibitionism •

In case you hadn’t noticed, I like attention. Whether it’s flaunting my butt on social media or PDA out on a date, I get a real kick from being on show. The spicy account is a whole other level…knowing people pleasure themselves over me is delicious. I have many, MANY fantasies about real life exhibitionist scenarios that I hope to live out someday.

• Voyeurism •

This one is only triggered in niche circumstances. I need to know and be dating the people involved to enjoy this. Think mutual masturbat!on and watching on during a threesome rather than observing strangers at a sex club (which I have done, but it didn’t get my juices flowing). 

• Mummy Domme/little girl •

As a switch, my mood fluctuates between Mummy and good girl. This isn’t about age play, it’s about a nurturing/service dominance (it’s not all about whips and pain)…the dynamics create a safe space for exploration. I’m sensual and for me, this is all about the dominant bringing pleasure to the submissive.

• Adult Nursing Relationship •

This is the big scary one I’m still coming to terms with…adult nursing. There’s been a lot of self kink shaming over this one, let me tell you! I have no aspirations to lactate, but there’s something about the closeness and soothing of a partner I find hot. Stroking someone’s hair, telling them they are being so good for Mummy…it’s all so sexy. I’m incredibly sensitive too so the stimulation of suckling is intensely pleasurable.

Part II coming soon…which kinks do we have in common?