Madam Mayhem

Sun’s Out, Fun’s Out

Anyone else hornier now the sun’s out and lockdown rules are lifting? I’m excited because it means I can indulge in one of my favourite kinks again…public play. From a cheeky hand up my skirt to a bj in a parked car, there’s something about the possibility of exposure that amplifies sex. If you’re feelingContinue reading “Sun’s Out, Fun’s Out”

One Domme Doesn’t Fit All

I’m a switch and enjoy being dominant and submissive equally, but as a cougar I’m naturally more of a domme. Cubs feel comfortable handing control over to me and quite often approach me wanting their first submissive experience. Unfortunately, mainstream porn would have us believe that all dommes are sadistic, whip wielding dominatrix types…so notContinue reading “One Domme Doesn’t Fit All”

It’s Just Blood…Period.

Have you ever engaged in sexual play with someone on their period? It’s something I only started delving into last year and I wish I’d been bold enough to try it sooner! Thanks to society and my early sex education, I always felt ashamed and dirty when on my period. I avoided dating and sexContinue reading “It’s Just Blood…Period.”

Approaching Anal

I’m a huge advocate for butt play of all sorts…from rimming through to anal sex. But I didn’t just dive straight in the deep end…it took time to get comfortable with butt stuff and build up to ‘the main event’. So whether you’re an enthusiast or wanting to delve in for the first time, howContinue reading “Approaching Anal”

Toys Are For Adults Too

Considering I had to by extra storage furniture to accommodate my growing collection, I think it’s safe to say I’m a huge fan of sex toys. A year ago I only had one toy…now I have in excess of 30 in varying shapes, sizes and uses. I’m obviously a big advocate for the use ofContinue reading “Toys Are For Adults Too”

Say my Name

Babe, babes, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, honey, darling…who slides into someone’s DMs using one of these? I know I’m guilty of it. I call guys ‘handsome’ or ‘mr’ on occasion…it’s a very easy habit to slip into… First impressions count and I’ll admit, if a guy opens with a ‘hey babe’ I immediately think ‘fuckboy’. NotContinue reading “Say my Name”

Vanilla is Valid Too

Vanilla is the term society gives to conventional, non-BSDM, non-kinky sex. With the rise in easily accessible, free porn on the internet, people have more exposure to all kinds of kinks and fetishes…especially at a young age. So much so that ‘vanilla’ sex is now looked on as boring and negative. I only started delvingContinue reading “Vanilla is Valid Too”

Hey

Why do people take such offence to receiving this as a first message when online dating? Possibly because it: • Feels impersonal • Puts the conversation burden on the receiver • Seems lazy and that you aren’t really interested 99% of the time, I start the chat after a match. Here are some of myContinue reading “Hey”