Mayhem’s 2024 In & Outs

Dating In…

  • Raising the bar on what we deserve
  • Approaching people in real life
  • Getting comfortable with rejection

Dating Out…

  • ‘Just ask’ on dating app bios
  • Using the apps for likes with no intention of engaging
  • Situationships 

Sex In…

  • More laughter during sex
  • Taking the focus off penetration 
  • Feeling it, not performing it

Sex Out…

  • Asking what their favourite position is
  • Complaining about condoms
  • Always using porn for solo play

Kink In…

  • Welcoming baby kinksters 
  • Reading body language for consent
  • Doing your own research on safety

Kink Out…

What would you add as your 2024 in and outs?

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