While it’s often seen by society as taboo, the cougar/cub sexual dynamic can be a really healthy one. I’ve always preferred younger men…with 40 just around the corner and my prime cougar years ahead of me, I’m a huge advocate for this kind of relationship (in case it wasn’t incredibly obvious already). I’m frequently askedContinue reading “The Cougar/Cub Dynamic”
Category Archives: Kink
Glass Half Full
I’m a glass half full kind of woman…especially when it comes to sex toys. The more the merrier if you ask me. You name it…vibrators, plugs, dildos…I’ve probably tried it…and enjoyed it…and have it in my top drawer. There’s one particular type of toy I’ve come (pun intended) to love recently…the glass variety. While theyContinue reading “Glass Half Full”
Butt Play Doesn’t Make You Gay
Regardless of your gender or how you identify sexually, butt play is something everyone can enjoy. Particularly for heterosexual penis owners…enjoying butt play does not make you gay! As I always say…it’s where your G-spot (or P-spot) is…it’s biology. If you are willing to explore butt play, you could unlock a world of new pleasureContinue reading “Butt Play Doesn’t Make You Gay”
Lingerie Lovers
It’s no secret I adore lingerie…to the point where I maaaaay be in fetish territory. I don’t wear it to look sexy for a partner, I wear it for my own pleasure. Putting on lingerie is part of foreplay for me…it helps get me in the mood for what’s to come…whether it be fun withContinue reading “Lingerie Lovers”
Sun’s Out, Fun’s Out
Anyone else hornier now the sun’s out and lockdown rules are lifting? I’m excited because it means I can indulge in one of my favourite kinks again…public play. From a cheeky hand up my skirt to a bj in a parked car, there’s something about the possibility of exposure that amplifies sex. If you’re feelingContinue reading “Sun’s Out, Fun’s Out”
One Domme Doesn’t Fit All
I’m a switch and enjoy being dominant and submissive equally, but as a cougar I’m naturally more of a domme. Cubs feel comfortable handing control over to me and quite often approach me wanting their first submissive experience. Unfortunately, mainstream porn would have us believe that all dommes are sadistic, whip wielding dominatrix types…so notContinue reading “One Domme Doesn’t Fit All”
Approaching Anal
I’m a huge advocate for butt play of all sorts…from rimming through to anal sex. But I didn’t just dive straight in the deep end…it took time to get comfortable with butt stuff and build up to ‘the main event’. So whether you’re an enthusiast or wanting to delve in for the first time, howContinue reading “Approaching Anal”
Toys Are For Adults Too
Considering I had to by extra storage furniture to accommodate my growing collection, I think it’s safe to say I’m a huge fan of sex toys. A year ago I only had one toy…now I have in excess of 30 in varying shapes, sizes and uses. I’m obviously a big advocate for the use ofContinue reading “Toys Are For Adults Too”
Vanilla is Valid Too
Vanilla is the term society gives to conventional, non-BSDM, non-kinky sex. With the rise in easily accessible, free porn on the internet, people have more exposure to all kinds of kinks and fetishes…especially at a young age. So much so that ‘vanilla’ sex is now looked on as boring and negative. I only started delvingContinue reading “Vanilla is Valid Too”
Madam Mayhem 