Did you know that ‘safe’ sex doesn’t exist? All sex comes with a risk of pregnancy or contracting an STI. Trust me, I’m militant about safety and I still got an STI last year. Unless you are in a committed monogamous relationship, you have both tested negative for STIs and birth control is being usedContinue reading “Safer Sex”
Author Archives: Madam Mayhem
Getting Over Someone
I’ve matched with far too many young men on dating apps who have gone through a breakup and thought ‘the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else’. Getting straight back into dating after a breakup is usually a bad idea because: You don’t process your emotions from the breakup, whichContinue reading “Getting Over Someone”
Cougar Myths
I’ve been dating cubs long enough now to hear some wild misconceptions about cougars. I frequently get asked the same questions, so I thought I’d bust some cougar myths… ‘I thought finding a cougar would be easy’ We are a rare…the numbers are stacked against cubs looking for a cougar. Dating women in their twentiesContinue reading “Cougar Myths”
Pegging
So you’ve mastered entry level butt play (starting here) and now you’re ready to step it up with pegging. Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end of things, it can be tricky territory to navigate with a partner. Before I dive in (so to speak), for those who aren’t familiar…pegging is when one partnerContinue reading “Pegging”
The Cougar/Cub Dynamic
While it’s often seen by society as taboo, the cougar/cub sexual dynamic can be a really healthy one. I’ve always preferred younger men…with 40 just around the corner and my prime cougar years ahead of me, I’m a huge advocate for this kind of relationship (in case it wasn’t incredibly obvious already). I’m frequently askedContinue reading “The Cougar/Cub Dynamic”
Glass Half Full
I’m a glass half full kind of woman…especially when it comes to sex toys. The more the merrier if you ask me. You name it…vibrators, plugs, dildos…I’ve probably tried it…and enjoyed it…and have it in my top drawer. There’s one particular type of toy I’ve come (pun intended) to love recently…the glass variety. While theyContinue reading “Glass Half Full”
Does Size Matter?
Now that I have your attention…I think the real question is, how can we create the most pleasurable experience with our sexual partners? The focus is better spent on our attitude and actions in bed, not the tools we bring to the job. Why is this the case? Let me break it down for you:Continue reading “Does Size Matter?”
Cougar Hunting in The Wild
With life returning to normal, people are shifting their dating from the apps back to real life. If you’ve been cougar hunting online, now might be the time to try hunting them in the wild. You’ll need to be on the lookout and mix up your regular routine though…it’s unlikely you’ll meet the cougar ofContinue reading “Cougar Hunting in The Wild”
Butt Play Doesn’t Make You Gay
Regardless of your gender or how you identify sexually, butt play is something everyone can enjoy. Particularly for heterosexual penis owners…enjoying butt play does not make you gay! As I always say…it’s where your G-spot (or P-spot) is…it’s biology. If you are willing to explore butt play, you could unlock a world of new pleasureContinue reading “Butt Play Doesn’t Make You Gay”
Lingerie Lovers
It’s no secret I adore lingerie…to the point where I maaaaay be in fetish territory. I don’t wear it to look sexy for a partner, I wear it for my own pleasure. Putting on lingerie is part of foreplay for me…it helps get me in the mood for what’s to come…whether it be fun withContinue reading “Lingerie Lovers”
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