Did you know that ‘safe’ sex doesn’t exist? All sex comes with a risk of pregnancy or contracting an STI. Trust me, I’m militant about safety and I still got an STI last year. Unless you are in a committed monogamous relationship, you have both tested negative for STIs and birth control is being usedContinue reading “Safer Sex”
Category Archives: Sex
Pegging
So you’ve mastered entry level butt play (starting here) and now you’re ready to step it up with pegging. Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end of things, it can be tricky territory to navigate with a partner. Before I dive in (so to speak), for those who aren’t familiar…pegging is when one partnerContinue reading “Pegging”
The Cougar/Cub Dynamic
While it’s often seen by society as taboo, the cougar/cub sexual dynamic can be a really healthy one. I’ve always preferred younger men…with 40 just around the corner and my prime cougar years ahead of me, I’m a huge advocate for this kind of relationship (in case it wasn’t incredibly obvious already). I’m frequently askedContinue reading “The Cougar/Cub Dynamic”
Glass Half Full
I’m a glass half full kind of woman…especially when it comes to sex toys. The more the merrier if you ask me. You name it…vibrators, plugs, dildos…I’ve probably tried it…and enjoyed it…and have it in my top drawer. There’s one particular type of toy I’ve come (pun intended) to love recently…the glass variety. While theyContinue reading “Glass Half Full”
Does Size Matter?
Now that I have your attention…I think the real question is, how can we create the most pleasurable experience with our sexual partners? The focus is better spent on our attitude and actions in bed, not the tools we bring to the job. Why is this the case? Let me break it down for you:Continue reading “Does Size Matter?”
Butt Play Doesn’t Make You Gay
Regardless of your gender or how you identify sexually, butt play is something everyone can enjoy. Particularly for heterosexual penis owners…enjoying butt play does not make you gay! As I always say…it’s where your G-spot (or P-spot) is…it’s biology. If you are willing to explore butt play, you could unlock a world of new pleasureContinue reading “Butt Play Doesn’t Make You Gay”
Lingerie Lovers
It’s no secret I adore lingerie…to the point where I maaaaay be in fetish territory. I don’t wear it to look sexy for a partner, I wear it for my own pleasure. Putting on lingerie is part of foreplay for me…it helps get me in the mood for what’s to come…whether it be fun withContinue reading “Lingerie Lovers”
Sun’s Out, Fun’s Out
Anyone else hornier now the sun’s out and lockdown rules are lifting? I’m excited because it means I can indulge in one of my favourite kinks again…public play. From a cheeky hand up my skirt to a bj in a parked car, there’s something about the possibility of exposure that amplifies sex. If you’re feelingContinue reading “Sun’s Out, Fun’s Out”
One Domme Doesn’t Fit All
I’m a switch and enjoy being dominant and submissive equally, but as a cougar I’m naturally more of a domme. Cubs feel comfortable handing control over to me and quite often approach me wanting their first submissive experience. Unfortunately, mainstream porn would have us believe that all dommes are sadistic, whip wielding dominatrix types…so notContinue reading “One Domme Doesn’t Fit All”
It’s Just Blood…Period.
Have you ever engaged in sexual play with someone on their period? It’s something I only started delving into last year and I wish I’d been bold enough to try it sooner! Thanks to society and my early sex education, I always felt ashamed and dirty when on my period. I avoided dating and sexContinue reading “It’s Just Blood…Period.”
Madam Mayhem 